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Discussion Questions:
- In your own life, can you think of situations where different “parts” of yourself have been in conflict? How do you typically resolve those internal tensions?
- What are the three main types of parts described in IFS (managers, firefighters, and exiles), and what motivates each one?
- How does Audrey differentiate between the concept of “parts” in IFS and clinical diagnoses like Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID)?
- Discuss how the concept of “the Self” in IFS ties in with Christian perspectives, especially in relation to the soul and the Holy Spirit.
- Why might it be important for pastors or spiritual leaders to be aware of their own internal parts when leading a congregation through change or conflict?
- Have you ever found yourself being “blended” with a particular part? How did it affect your behavior or interactions with others?
- How does the IFS model understand destructive behaviors or “sinful” actions, especially in light of the intentions behind a part’s behavior?
- What strategies did Audrey suggest for pastors or anyone in leadership to create space and engage self-reflectively with their own parts before making important decisions?
- In what ways might understanding and working with your own internal parts help you improve your relationships—with yourself, others, and God?
