Discussion Questions:
- Understanding Darkness: Mandy Smith speaks about pressing against a darkness that wants to make us quiet and disrupt our sleep. What do you think this “darkness” represents in the context of spiritual leadership?
- Personal Experience: Tod Bolsinger shared that feelings of depression and insecurity often followed his speaking engagements. How do you think these feelings can impact a leader’s ability to lead effectively?
- Honesty in Leadership: Tod mentioned that Mandy is more honest about acknowledging her struggles. Why do you think it might be challenging for leaders to be open about their vulnerabilities?
- Imposter Syndrome: Tod talked about facing imposter syndrome in his ministry. How does imposter syndrome affect leaders, and what strategies can they use to overcome it?
- Youth vs. Experience: Markus Watson brought up Richard Rohr’s concept of the “first half of life” and “second half of life.” How does this concept help explain the evolution of a leader’s mindset over time?
- Spiritual Practices: Tod shared his nighttime spiritual practice of trusting God before going to sleep. How can similar spiritual practices aid leaders in managing stress and anxiety?
- Community’s Role: How important is it for leaders to have a supportive community that reinforces their sense of worth and purpose, especially during challenging times?
- Transition from Self-Focus: Tod emphasized the importance of not making leadership about oneself but about what the community is called to be. How can leaders shift their focus from self-validation to community-oriented goals?
- Rest and Faith: Considering Tod’s insight about sleep as an act of faith, how can leaders create a balance between their responsibilities and their need for rest and self-care?
