Discussion Questions:
- How does Marc Schelske define “other-centered, co-suffering love,” and why does he believe this concept is critical for Christian leadership?
- What challenges might a pastor or church leader face when transitioning from a leadership style of “self-centered ego-defending ambition” to one of “other-centered co-suffering love?”
- Discuss the significance of Jesus’ journey to Jerusalem in the context of other centered, co-suffering love, as explained by Marc Schelske.
- In what ways can the concept of “kenotic theology” or “kenosis” be applied to modern-day church leadership?
- How does Marc Schelske differentiate between understanding God’s love and implementing it in a way that is meaningful and actionable for church members?
- Reflect on Marc Schelske’s personal journey from ego-driven leadership to embracing other-centered, co-suffering love. What lessons can church leaders take from his experience?
- In the discussion, Marc mentions dealing with resistance in leadership. How can church leaders use other-centered, co-suffering love to navigate resistance and disagreements within their congregations?
- How does Marc Schelske propose handling change within a church setting, particularly when it involves loss and discomfort for church members?
- Discuss the importance of holding space and allowing time for processing within church leadership as highlighted by Marc Schelske. Why might this approach be more effective in some situations?
- Consider Marc Schelske’s view on the relationship between God’s love and suffering. How can church leaders balance demonstrating love while confronting the realities of pain and suffering in their ministries?
